Many people struggle with health and fitness for years, trapped in cycles of dieting and inconsistency. For one woman, this changed drastically in her 50s, not through restrictive diets but through a structured strength-training program and a fundamental shift in mindset. This is the story of how she lost nearly 85 pounds, competed in bodybuilding, and moved to Bali – all after finally finding an approach that worked.
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The Breaking Point
For decades, the author battled with food control. Diets felt like temporary fixes, abandoned as soon as life got stressful. This frustration peaked as she entered her 50s, leading to a desperate need for change. The key wasn’t another diet, but a sustainable system built around education and self-awareness.
The Power of Personalized Training
The turning point came when she partnered with personal trainer Nelea Plescan at Ultimate Performance. This gym environment, dedicated to one-on-one training, provided a focused and supportive atmosphere. The program wasn’t about quick fixes; it was about understanding the body’s needs and building strength over time.
Building Strength, Step by Step
The initial training plan focused on two weekly sessions, alternating between upper and lower body. The author had existing hip issues, so the program started with squat variations to avoid aggravating pain. Over time, more challenging movements like deadlifts were reintroduced as hip strength improved. Upper-body work, including push-ups (something she never thought possible), became a core part of the routine.
Beyond the gym, daily step counts increased to 15,000-16,000, supplemented by intense cardio sessions (air bike or StairMaster) twice a week. These lifestyle changes complemented the strength training, accelerating results and improving overall fitness.
Reframing Aging Through Strength
This transformation wasn’t just physical. It reshaped the author’s relationship with food, movement, and self-perception. Nelea helped her understand why her body needed certain fuels, shifting the focus from anxiety-driven eating to a tool for achieving strength goals. The author no longer chased quick fixes but embraced consistency, self-respect, and long-term sustainability.
Beyond the Numbers
Over 17 months, the author lost 85 pounds and even entered a bodybuilding competition – a feat she never imagined possible. This journey inspired a move to Bali, symbolizing a fresh start built on confidence, strength, and a new mindset.
The Three Pillars of Transformation
The author distilled her success into three key principles:
- Consistency Over Motivation: Relying on routine and repetition proved far more effective than waiting for inspiration. A manageable training and walking schedule ensured daily progress.
- Strength Training as the Foundation: Starting with a lifting program provided structure, empowerment, and a sense of achievement. Progress in the gym fueled further dedication.
- Prioritizing Protein: Consistently hitting a high-protein target supported muscle growth, fullness, energy stability, and metabolism during perimenopause.
“This journey has meant everything to me. I honestly don’t think I could have done it without Nelea. It’s not just the hour you spend in the gym—it’s the care and support she gives outside the sessions that make all the difference.”
This story demonstrates that strength and transformation are attainable at any age. The key isn’t willpower alone, but a combination of expert guidance, consistent effort, and a fundamental shift in mindset.
